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We’re often told that if we’re kind, stay out of the drama, and focus on our craft, the world will reflect positivity back at us. But there’s a glitch in that logic. Sometimes, you can be the most intentional, grounded version of yourself, and people will still find a way to pin their mess on you. What's worse is that this sort of thing is everywhere. I recently dealt with a narcissistic Ebay seller who refused to co operate. I needed a refund for an airbed that I could not p

Sometimes it only takes one phone call to expose years of denial. What was supposed to be a simple lift to a family celebration became the moment I finally saw who someone really was—and why protecting my peace meant walking away, even when the person wore the title of “family.” This person doesn't know it yet, and I am not going to name names. However this person was a half family member that my mother conceived at the age of 17. This person was a fully grown man who hadn't

They say you should let go of what no longer serves you. During my social media detox, I deleted my Threads account. In this post, I’m going deeper into why I believe it’s one of the worst social media platforms on the internet — and why leaving it felt necessary for my well-being. So why did I join Threads in the first place? The reasons were simple. I wanted to spread my wings by sharing my music with a wider audience. I wanted to support other artists, just as I do on othe

What a year it’s been. For me, it was mostly a quiet one — reflective, more than reactive. I’ve had a few things on my mind lately. I’ve been thinking about what I want to do in 2026, and I’ve also found myself thinking about the people online who tried to bring me down. I’ve been genuinely appalled by how some people treat others on Threads. One small posting mistake, and the gatekeepers lose their minds. The disrespect comes fast. You share a factual point — like Spotify pa

For those who know me, I am a person of reflection and thought. These past several months have been about escaping the noise and seeking more meaning in the choices we make and the lives we lead. In that quiet space, my thoughts have turned toward technology — a field that is endlessly fascinating, but also controversial, sometimes even challenging what it means to be human. Observing how AI is beginning to shape life has inspired me to share my reflections on its impact.. Of

Wi-Fi. Gotta love it.  The freedom of staying connected without wires — whether you're outside, inside, or in a cafe halfway across town . I recently got rid of my Wi-Fi connection, and in many ways, it’s opened my eyes. I remember how far we have come. We went from only a dial-up connection to super fast internet connection that is now run by the government. These days we are brainwashed into thinking that WiFi (and the internet) is an essential part of the way we do things

When I was 14 the internet was very innocent. It was fun. It was neat. Who would of thought we could access the information, and do simple things all through a dial up connection. That was 26 years ago. But I am noticing some changes about how it is treated today. I have already spoken about how it can change human behavior via social media. But now I am noticing a different vibe. It's not just social media. It is the fact you look at everything, and you see the same crap ove

A.I. is everywhere. It's in your personal devices, it's in the services we buy. The market for it is HUGE. Everywhere I seem to look,...

When I was in my early twenties, I went from living with a controlling father to being trapped in a malignant narcissistic relationship....

I have been thinking about humanity lately, and how society is these days. Some of us once had hope that humanity and society would...

The giant hand repesents social media, and how they treat people - Read more Below. Ever wondered why you can’t stop scrolling at 2 a.m.,...

I just finished a full month-long social media detox, from July 27 to August 26, and honestly… it was eye-opening. I had been spending up...

Women in the music industry still face significant challenges with representation and fairness—especially in technical roles like...

No Drama, Just enjoying the music. About a year and a half ago, someone on TikTok commented that I had no fanbase. I wasn’t sure if they...

The last few days have been quietly transformative — not in some loud, dramatic way, but through a deep, grounded shift I can feel right...

A lot of people understand that being an underground musician is hard. Some of us want to get paid for doing something we love. Some of...

Everyone knows that social media can take a huge chunk out of everyday routines. In one of my previous blogs I talked about health...

For most of my life, I never really believed I was an intelligent person. In fact, I didn’t even know what my IQ was—if I had one at all....

For as long as I can remember, I’ve wrestled with a persistent and unsettling question: What is wrong with me?  It started with subtle...

It is official! I am celebrating 3 years without a single drop of alcohol. That's over 1, 577, 330 minutes, over 94, 640,2022 seconds,...